Weddings by Bretta

Wedding FAQ

Answers to the questions couples ask us most, from getting your marriage license to what happens on the wedding day.

Your Marriage License

How do we get our marriage license?
Apply with your County Clerk's office. You can start the application online to save time, but you both need to be there with a valid photo ID to pick it up. Once it's issued, your license is good for 60 days. Here are the counties we work in most:
When do we sign the license on the wedding day?

Whatever works best for your timeline. If you're doing a first look and have a full photo schedule after the ceremony, we can sign before the wedding. Otherwise we meet you right after the ceremony in the bridal suite or another private spot, which also gives you a minute to breathe and maybe enjoy a glass of champagne. We fill out the license ahead of time, so all that's left is three signatures.

Do we need witnesses?

No. The license you return to the Clerk's office does not need witness signatures in Indiana. Some counties include a decorative keepsake certificate with a spot for witnesses, but that one is optional.

Who returns the license after the ceremony?

Most Clerk's offices give you a self-addressed envelope so you can mail it back. You can also drop it off in person at the same county office where you applied. Anyone can return it for you. Only the pickup requires both of you.

Your Ceremony

Do we have to have a religious ceremony?

No. This is your wedding, and there is no right or wrong way to do it. We perform ceremonies with no mention of religion, with a light touch, and with simple non-denominational prayers.

Can we write our own script?

Of course. Please email it to us one week before the wedding so we can read it several times and get comfortable with it. We want your ceremony to sound natural, not read from a page.

Can you help us write our vows?

Your personal vows should come from the two of you, so we won't write them for you, but we're happy to help you get started. Your custom ceremony script is a different story. We write that with you, and it's included in every service.

Do we have to say our own vows?

Not at all. Plenty of couples prefer a simple "I do." Another option is to write personal vows and share them privately during a first look, or have someone hand-deliver them before the ceremony.

Do we have to exchange rings?

No. If you have ring tattoos or just prefer to skip rings, a unity ceremony is a lovely replacement. See our unity ceremony ideas.

What unity ceremonies can we include?

Sand, rose, ribbon, hand fasting, a wine box and many more. We'll walk you through the options, and there is never an extra charge for adding more than one.

Can our pets be part of the ceremony?

Yes, and we love it. Dogs, cats and even horses have joined us at the altar.

Do we have to do a first look?

No. It's completely up to you.

Rehearsal & Wedding Day

Can you run our rehearsal?

Yes. Our officiants lead a smooth rehearsal and cover every detail, from who walks the mothers and grandparents down the aisle to who holds the rings, plus flower girls and ring bearers.

Can the rehearsal be somewhere other than our venue?

Absolutely. We hold rehearsals at restaurants, backyards and parks all the time. If you can't use your venue the day before, we can also do a day-of rehearsal a few hours before the ceremony.

What does the officiant wear?

We dress professionally, because we're in your photos too. Our men wear a dark suit, white shirt, tie and dress shoes. Our women wear a dress, a pant suit or a suit with a jacket.

Do you step out of the kiss shot?

Every single time. That moment is all yours.

Do you stay for the reception?

We appreciate the offer, but we usually don't stay for dinner, so there's no need to save us a seat.

What if our officiant gets sick?

You're covered. We have a full team of experienced officiants ready to step in, and in 14 years we have never missed a wedding.

Booking & Details

What forms of payment do you accept?

Venmo, Zelle, Cash App, Apple Pay, personal check and cash. A deposit reserves your date, and every couple receives a contract at our first meeting.

Do you charge for mileage?

No. The price we quote is the price you pay. If your ceremony or rehearsal moves much farther away after the contract is signed, a travel fee may apply, so please let us know about any changes as soon as you can.

Can we choose our officiant?

In most cases, yes. Let us know who you'd like and we'll check their calendar.

Can you recommend other vendors?

Yes. Just ask, and we'll share the photographers, florists, DJs and other pros we trust. If you're still searching for a venue, take a look at our venue partners.

Do you share our information with anyone?

Never. We do not sell, share or pass along your information.

We're already legally married and no one knows. Can you keep that secret?

What secret? Your privacy is always safe with us.

Still have questions?

We are happy to help. Call or text (317) 416-7777, or send us a note about your day.

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